Heaven or Hell
Perhaps you have had this happen to you before. You are having the best day and someone comes in, having a bad day, very soon you have been sucked down in the depths of hell with them. You didn’t want this to happen. Maybe it even makes you upset, with them ,that your day has been ruined or maybe you feel you don’t want to push your “good day” on them when they are suffering.
We have a choice, to get dragged down, although often it doesn’t feel like it. I know personally, when I have to deal with someone who gets worked up and upset at other people or situations it pushes my buttons and I can not be a part of it. This is one of the reason why in this past year I have had to cut certain people off, who at one point, were a huge part of my life. I couldn’t stand to be drug down into hell again and again. It is hard to maintain an uplifted state when those who surround you are not in alignment with you and not wanting to be either.
We do however, despite it being uncomfortable, have a choice. We can choose to be drug down or choose to stay in our uplifted state. Sometimes however the signs are clear that certain people just are not meant to travel on this journey with us any longer.
How can we maintain or even achieve this heavenly state of being?
We must cleanse our consciousness of all of the negative reactions to life. This means automatic negative thoughts about ones self, others or the world generally.
We must heal at the core of our being. The deepest parts of us, OUR PAST, the root of our automatic responses to life.
Once we have healed our past, ALL OF IT, we then have a choice of what to replace it with. For my clients we choose heaven/love. Thoughts that feel like heaven and therefore attract heavenly experiences in to our world. This is shown by rapid manifesting and by an uplifted and content state of being consistently.
Once we have cleansed and had revelations of deeper truths, by this process of clearing and cleansing, we can then do a daily practice of checking in. This , for myself, looks like waking up in the morning and before getting out of bed checking in with yourself and asking “ What percent of heaven am I living in right now?” If it’s below 100% then finding the issue or belief and healing it before you even get out of your bed in the morning. This is something I teach my clients as we work through the IFF ( Inner Freedom Formula) program.
Speak what you want over and over and BELIEVE that everything, every, single, thing, is for YOUR BENEFIT.
Now I am not saying that if you are going through something traumatic that has just happened that this will even be possible right now. You are certainly allowed to have bad days and even bad weeks or months (depending on what is going on). When you are ready, it is time to heal. Once you have healed, this daily check in will get easier and easier and easier every single day.
As for those bad days….
In the last several months I can count on one hand the amount of “bad days” I have had. Keep in mind I am currently going through a divorce. I had 2 bad days in a row where I was extremely angry about what happened in my relationship. I was feeling bad for myself and very angry at my ex for what happened. These couple of bad days had me feeling even worse about myself because of how I was reacting. How could I let myself get dragged down like this again?????
Here is the good part. After the couple of bad days, I felt myself life even higher than I had been before. I learned something very valuable and because of those “bad days” I had more benefits and an even higher feeling of upliftment come to me.
Since those 2 bad days, in a row, I had another. Recently. Once again, I was dragged down and this time, after being triggered by some negative behavior that I had thought I had completely separated myself from. BUT GUESS WHAT?! Even from this I have made gains.
I have found massive amounts of closure from this person/situation. I know that I am SO LOVED that the Divine will offer me every opportunity to keep moving forward on my path and never go backwards. (for more than a day or two). I believe (and because I believe) I am shown proof of my beliefs daily. I believe that when something doesn’t “work out” it is actually REALLY WORKING OUT!
When we heal our past we can choose to have new thoughts to what is happening in the world around us. Rather than seeing patterns in our life repeat over and over and over and having self fulfilled NEGATIVE PROPHECIES come true, we can change them to something much better.
Imagine you have an empty chalk board. This board is about your life. Nothing has been written on it yet. Your parents aren’t on there, friends, knowledge NONE OF IT, it is blank. You can begin writing the story anew. You can choose to put good thoughts, beliefs and feelings on this board. You can write beautiful mantras that uplift you and those around you. You can decide what it is that you want to create for yourself. As you begin to fill up the board you will notice that you would never WILLINGLY CHOOSE to write awful things on that board. It would be detrimental to your success.
This is how it works when we cleanse the mind. We relieve ourselves of the past burdens that are sitting there underneath the surface, waiting to rear their ugly heads as soon as they have the opportunity. The past situations determine how we feel about ourselves, what we think about ourselves, others and the world generally. When we heal them then our story changes. We don’t erase these things, we heal them, we see them in a new light, we find the lesson and the blessing.
If you have been feeling bad about yourself, not able to see another way, even though you KNOW YOU WANT TO DO THINGS ANOTHER WAY but you just can’t manage it, it is because inner healing is needed.
When I work with my clients, it is sessions, not months or years working on the same issue. It is RAPID healing. You come feeling low and leave feeling much higher and much better. When I work with my clients my goal, always, is to have you leave the hellish, lower vibration thoughts behind and introduce more loving and heavenly thoughts into your consciousness and the world generally. These changes happen within your mind and your brain. Then, the automatic thoughts that come feel so much better than they did before.
The more you heal, the faster you can manifest. The more you heal, the happier you are. The more you heal, the more wonderful things will flow into your life. The more you heal, the less you have to heal.
If you are reading this, it is because you are on your own personal and spiritual growth journey. I am so glad you found me! If you have any questions or would like to ask more about the IFF please send me an email, I would love to get in touch!
